Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual response. It’s all out there, boys will be boys, etc. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Read on for simple and fun tips on how to masturbate for men.
Time Required: Male masturbation doesn't have to always be a "quick affair". Take your time and enjoy.
Here's How:
1. Make time for more than a quickie.
Most guys first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t trying to finish quick before someone interrupts.
2. Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune into your body.
Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of guys do, and while porn can be great, it also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you from what’s actually happening in your body. You don’t need to throw the porn away, but for a few times, masturbate without porn, and objectify yourself for a change!
3. Do a…dry…run through.
Bad pun aside, it’s a good idea to try the above suggestions, and then just masturbate as you normally would. As you do this pay attention:
o Changes in your breathing: Does it become shallow and quick, slower and deeper?
o Changes in your body: is there tension in some places, and relaxation in others? Is this the same every time you masturbate?
o How does it feel just before you have an orgasm?
o How does it feel as you orgasm, and immediately post-orgasm?
4. Time to switch it up.
Men learn early in their lives the most effective way to get themselves off. And most never waver from the utilitarian approach to self love. But sex is less like a well oiled machine, and more like a chaotic food fair, where there is an endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetites. So it’s time to throw a wrench in the works and shake up your routine. Try any combination of the following suggestions:
5. Does your left hand know what your right hand is doing?
Do you always use the same one hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If you’re among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be off, it’s almost like sex with someone new for the first time. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an old hand some tricks.
6. Experiment with positions.
If you aren’t an experimental type, it’s time to start. If you’re used to masturbating lying down on your back, try sitting up. If you normally sit in a chair, try standing, or kneeling. As with all these changes, this might feel ridiculous at first, and you’ll probably go back to old faithful, but see what masturbation feels like in different positions, and notice if it brings with it any new sensations.
7. Get your hips moving.
The way your body moves when you masturbate is probably very different from the way it moves when you’re having sex with someone else. Many men don’t move at all when they masturbate. Try to move your hips when you masturbate, simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Notice how moving your hips in different ways can bring you closer to, and at times take you farther away from, the point of orgasm.
8. Use different hand strokes.
Most men learn early on that a vigorous stroke does the trick. This intense up and down stimulation usually ends in a good orgasm. But there are dozens of other strokes that each bring with them different sensations, and different orgasms. Roll your penis in between your hands, moving your hands up and down your shaft. Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and down. Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.
9. Explore your shaft.
While most of the nerve endings on the penis are at the head, and specifically the frenulum, many men will have spots on their shaft that are unusually sensitive. Try putting one hand at the base of your penis and press it towards your body while experimenting with different hand strokes along the shaft of your penis. Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.
10. Reach around, yourself.
For many men the balls (testicles) are a very sensitive area that responds well to feelings of touch and pressure. Take your forefinger and thumb and make them in a circle at the top of your scrotum. Gently tug on your scrotum as your masturbating. This is both a way to prevent you from ejaculating and a way to extend sexual feelings in your body. Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling, scratching, and rubbing.
11. Check out the neighborhood.
While the penis and scrotum tend to be the epicenter of masturbatory attention, if you’re looking to open things up a bit, be sure to take a tour of some other nearby areas. The perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, is very sensitive to pressure and massage, and rubbing it provides external prostate stimulation. Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the anus, both externally and by using a finger for penetration.
12. Bring it all together.
Not everything you try is going to do it for you, but the idea behind the above tips is to try lots of different things, and then incorporate whatever you like into the ways you regularly masturbate. Maybe it’s a different stroke, or position, or breathing technique. Obviously there is no one, correct way to masturbate, and even if you’ve got something that works for you, consider the fact that there could be more out there if you experiment with it.
Tips:
1. Another myth about male masturbation is that you shouldn’t use anything other than you hand. While your hand might be doing the trick, adding some accessories can make the stimulation even more intense, and inspire more creativity with yourself, and with partners.
2. Get a good quality personal lubricant . If it’s only for masturbation you can use something that’s oil based without worrying about condom compatibility. Oil based products are better because they won’t dry up.
3. Add a sex toy into the mix. It might be a vibrator, a dildo, or a cock ring (if you’ve never tried one I recommend trying one on your own before you use it with a partner). Sex toys can add a completely new kind of stimulation, and accentuate the manual stimulation your doing.
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Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Friday, May 27, 2011
Belly Rub Masturbation
Make sure you're fully erect, then tilt your penis straight up towards your belly button and slowly rub the shaft against your stomach. Hold your penis just below the tip, using your thumb to press your penis into your stomach. Increase speed and direction to suit your taste. A little lubrication on this one will increase the sensations.
Friday, October 1, 2010
Male masturbation tips
know what you are thinking. “I'm a man; I really don't need male masturbation tips! Heck, I sometimes jack off several times a week with no aid at all, and it always feels great!”
True enough, but if someone told you that they held the secrets to male masturbation techniques that lead to orgasms that are stronger and last longer, wouldn't you want to know more?
Yeah–I thought that might grab your attention.
In the world of male masturbation techniques, men have the women licked, so to speak. This is because men are less ashamed of the act and thereby, more inclined to be open minded about exploring various aspects of their own sexuality. With this is mind; I have cultivated the following best male masturbation tips.
Male Masturbation Tip #1: Invest in Sex Toys
The first of my male masturbation tips involves the use and/or purchase of sex toys. Many men may be unaware that they even have this option. Truth is, certain toys exist that were specifically designed to enhance the male masturbation experience. Silicone or colorful, jellied sleeves for example, are hand held devices that can simulate male genitalia. These items usually slip over the penis and can come ribbed or studded. Some even offer vibrating beads as inserts that can maximize the sensual effects of the sleeve.
Utilization of cock rings is among the best male masturbation techniques available as they are designed to hold off actual ejaculation. This makes orgasms ten times more intense when they finally occur–they can also aid in multiple orgasms.
A vibrator is another sure bet on male masturbation tips because the scrotum/anal area can be stroked during penal stimulation, causing an incredible eruption.
Male Masturbation Tip #2: Lube It Up
Male masturbation techniques wouldn't be complete without the mention of lubricants. Old stand by's like mineral oil or lotion work well, but if you want to heighten the best male masturbation techniques experience, investing in a quality lubricant is just the ticket. Lubricants not only come in flavors; they can also tingle or warm on contact with skin. Massage oils are especially good, as they are thicker and slicker–some tingle and heat up with applied friction.
Male Masturbation Tip #3: Fantasize
Been there, done that, bought the t–shirt and the dippy hat you say? Don't think so. My fantasizing regime has a bit of a twist to it. With this male masturbation tips exercise, you should spend a full five–minute or so thinking about the hot gal pal of your fantasies BEFORE even touching your member.
As far as the current list of the best male masturbation techniques goes, this one may be the more difficult to master, however, do at least try to accomplish it. The orgasm at the end of it is well worth the wait.
Male Masturbation Tip #4: Using Your Hands
Unlike the prior male masturbation tips, the use of your hands may seem like a no–brainer, but proper hand techniques can be just as important in achieving massive orgasm as anything else. Get creative! Instead of using the typical up and down motions, switch things up. For instance, slick your hands and your penis with your lubricant of choice and put your primary hand (the one you use most) at the top of the shaft. Stroke downward. Before you get all the way down, put your other hand on the top of your penis, stroking downward as well. Repeat.
Out of all the male masturbation tips, this one will send your senses reeling because it simulates a female riding on top of you.
The best male masturbation techniques can ultimately be useful to you in your bid to find a way to upgrade your masturbation experiences. It can also have the two–fold effect of making you a better lover, as many of the male masturbation techniques rely heavily on training you to delay orgasm, which is a bonus for the girl.
Let's face it, implementing these male masturbation tips can create a win–win that will make you and your lover very happy!
True enough, but if someone told you that they held the secrets to male masturbation techniques that lead to orgasms that are stronger and last longer, wouldn't you want to know more?
Yeah–I thought that might grab your attention.
In the world of male masturbation techniques, men have the women licked, so to speak. This is because men are less ashamed of the act and thereby, more inclined to be open minded about exploring various aspects of their own sexuality. With this is mind; I have cultivated the following best male masturbation tips.
Male Masturbation Tip #1: Invest in Sex Toys
The first of my male masturbation tips involves the use and/or purchase of sex toys. Many men may be unaware that they even have this option. Truth is, certain toys exist that were specifically designed to enhance the male masturbation experience. Silicone or colorful, jellied sleeves for example, are hand held devices that can simulate male genitalia. These items usually slip over the penis and can come ribbed or studded. Some even offer vibrating beads as inserts that can maximize the sensual effects of the sleeve.
Utilization of cock rings is among the best male masturbation techniques available as they are designed to hold off actual ejaculation. This makes orgasms ten times more intense when they finally occur–they can also aid in multiple orgasms.
A vibrator is another sure bet on male masturbation tips because the scrotum/anal area can be stroked during penal stimulation, causing an incredible eruption.
Male Masturbation Tip #2: Lube It Up
Male masturbation techniques wouldn't be complete without the mention of lubricants. Old stand by's like mineral oil or lotion work well, but if you want to heighten the best male masturbation techniques experience, investing in a quality lubricant is just the ticket. Lubricants not only come in flavors; they can also tingle or warm on contact with skin. Massage oils are especially good, as they are thicker and slicker–some tingle and heat up with applied friction.
Male Masturbation Tip #3: Fantasize
Been there, done that, bought the t–shirt and the dippy hat you say? Don't think so. My fantasizing regime has a bit of a twist to it. With this male masturbation tips exercise, you should spend a full five–minute or so thinking about the hot gal pal of your fantasies BEFORE even touching your member.
As far as the current list of the best male masturbation techniques goes, this one may be the more difficult to master, however, do at least try to accomplish it. The orgasm at the end of it is well worth the wait.
Male Masturbation Tip #4: Using Your Hands
Unlike the prior male masturbation tips, the use of your hands may seem like a no–brainer, but proper hand techniques can be just as important in achieving massive orgasm as anything else. Get creative! Instead of using the typical up and down motions, switch things up. For instance, slick your hands and your penis with your lubricant of choice and put your primary hand (the one you use most) at the top of the shaft. Stroke downward. Before you get all the way down, put your other hand on the top of your penis, stroking downward as well. Repeat.
Out of all the male masturbation tips, this one will send your senses reeling because it simulates a female riding on top of you.
The best male masturbation techniques can ultimately be useful to you in your bid to find a way to upgrade your masturbation experiences. It can also have the two–fold effect of making you a better lover, as many of the male masturbation techniques rely heavily on training you to delay orgasm, which is a bonus for the girl.
Let's face it, implementing these male masturbation tips can create a win–win that will make you and your lover very happy!
Friday, September 24, 2010
Female masturbation tips
Whether you only have time for a quick feel-good session with yourself, or whether you have all the time in the world, the following list provides a method for every woman to maximize her benefit from a beautiful masturbation experience. Right now, take a little look-see to find out which one(s) fit your personality and schedule.
Skin to Skin Contact
The Pattie Cake
With your pointer and middle fingers, gently pat your clitoris. Vary the pressure and the speed. Your little man in the boat will stand at attention. Your inner labia and clitoris will feel sticky sweet and warm up. The inside of your vagina will overflow with your love fluid. Directly before you come, push those same two fingers into your sticky sweetness. Rub the natural lubricant from inside of you onto your clitoris, and rub hard until you come.
The Sandwich Cookie
Imagine your first two fingers as the hard cookies that sandwich a creamy filling. Gently grip your clitoris between your first two fingers. Stroke your clitoris with your other hand. Vary the pressure and speed until you come.
The Open-Faced Sandwich
Use the palm of your outstretched hand, gently pat and then push down gently. Continue with this rhythm until you begin to feel hot. When you are almost to the end, just push and let go, push and let go, never letting your hand leave skin contact.
The Pulsing Pelvis
Begin touching yourself with your fingers how you like it the best. Start to softly contract your leg muscles in order for your pelvis to gently pulse in a rhythm reminiscent of lovemaking with a partner. Rock up and down, up and down, until you come.
Take a Dip
In the Pool
Spread your legs as far as you can while positioning yourself in front of one of the jets in your pool or hot tub. Stand far enough away from the jet so it is not uncomfortable for you, then move closer and closer until the stimulation is just the right amount to jet you into orgasm.
With Your Shower Head
Use your handheld shower head to masturbate. Actually take the shower head off of its hook and press it on your clitoris. Rub softly. Rub firmly. Alternate between the two extremes, or find a middle ground. Always synchronize your motions to escalate the masturbation experience.
In Your Bathtub
Get into your dry bathtub and sit directly underneath the faucet. Make sure the faucet is aimed directly at your clitoris. Turn the water on warm and let the flow of water hit your clitoris. Use your elbows to hold up your upper body and stick your hands underneath your butt. Right before your orgasm, turn the water temperature to hot … a comfortable hot … and let yourself come.
Common Toys
Dig the Shovel
You can use whatever object turns you on. Pick out a vibrator or anything you like. Mimicking a gently digging motion, use the toy to play with your clitoris. Slide your toy down your clitoris, across your clitoris, and upward, removing the object entirely from your body. Repeat until you reach orgasm.
It’s Electric
When using an electric toothbrush to stimulate your clitoris, simply use it as if it were a vibrator. Touch softly at first, and then as you get more excited, get into a rhythm of hard, soft, or medium pressure. Go up, down, all around, in little circles. Find the motion that suits you the best.
A Play Station
Use a Metal Gear Solid CD on your Sony Playstation, and grab the vibrating controller. Follow the same instructions for the electric toothbrush and the rest is easy. Find yourself. You’ll figure out what to do.
If you have already tried all of the above masturbation tips for women, try adding your own personalized touch on variations to these techniques. If this still isn’t doing it for you, stay tuned for the next set of tips from the professionals.
If you follow the previous tips, you too will experience the self-satisfying beauty of climactic joy through masturbation. When you find something new that works for you, you can share your little secret with your partner.
Skin to Skin Contact
The Pattie Cake
With your pointer and middle fingers, gently pat your clitoris. Vary the pressure and the speed. Your little man in the boat will stand at attention. Your inner labia and clitoris will feel sticky sweet and warm up. The inside of your vagina will overflow with your love fluid. Directly before you come, push those same two fingers into your sticky sweetness. Rub the natural lubricant from inside of you onto your clitoris, and rub hard until you come.
The Sandwich Cookie
Imagine your first two fingers as the hard cookies that sandwich a creamy filling. Gently grip your clitoris between your first two fingers. Stroke your clitoris with your other hand. Vary the pressure and speed until you come.
The Open-Faced Sandwich
Use the palm of your outstretched hand, gently pat and then push down gently. Continue with this rhythm until you begin to feel hot. When you are almost to the end, just push and let go, push and let go, never letting your hand leave skin contact.
The Pulsing Pelvis
Begin touching yourself with your fingers how you like it the best. Start to softly contract your leg muscles in order for your pelvis to gently pulse in a rhythm reminiscent of lovemaking with a partner. Rock up and down, up and down, until you come.
Take a Dip
In the Pool
Spread your legs as far as you can while positioning yourself in front of one of the jets in your pool or hot tub. Stand far enough away from the jet so it is not uncomfortable for you, then move closer and closer until the stimulation is just the right amount to jet you into orgasm.
With Your Shower Head
Use your handheld shower head to masturbate. Actually take the shower head off of its hook and press it on your clitoris. Rub softly. Rub firmly. Alternate between the two extremes, or find a middle ground. Always synchronize your motions to escalate the masturbation experience.
In Your Bathtub
Get into your dry bathtub and sit directly underneath the faucet. Make sure the faucet is aimed directly at your clitoris. Turn the water on warm and let the flow of water hit your clitoris. Use your elbows to hold up your upper body and stick your hands underneath your butt. Right before your orgasm, turn the water temperature to hot … a comfortable hot … and let yourself come.
Common Toys
Dig the Shovel
You can use whatever object turns you on. Pick out a vibrator or anything you like. Mimicking a gently digging motion, use the toy to play with your clitoris. Slide your toy down your clitoris, across your clitoris, and upward, removing the object entirely from your body. Repeat until you reach orgasm.
It’s Electric
When using an electric toothbrush to stimulate your clitoris, simply use it as if it were a vibrator. Touch softly at first, and then as you get more excited, get into a rhythm of hard, soft, or medium pressure. Go up, down, all around, in little circles. Find the motion that suits you the best.
A Play Station
Use a Metal Gear Solid CD on your Sony Playstation, and grab the vibrating controller. Follow the same instructions for the electric toothbrush and the rest is easy. Find yourself. You’ll figure out what to do.
If you have already tried all of the above masturbation tips for women, try adding your own personalized touch on variations to these techniques. If this still isn’t doing it for you, stay tuned for the next set of tips from the professionals.
If you follow the previous tips, you too will experience the self-satisfying beauty of climactic joy through masturbation. When you find something new that works for you, you can share your little secret with your partner.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Jerking off
Do you ever get alone time to play with your piece? I know you guys take time to masturbate. Here are some names for it. Share your ideas on it.
*Hosing down the driveway
*Hotfooting it to the nearest exit
*Hug the hog
*Hump your hose
*Investing in pork bellies
*Invoking the Oscar Meyer love spell
*Jack hammer
*Jazz yourself
*Jerk Jamby
*Jerk the gherkin
*left to your own devices
*Letting the cat out of the bag
*Hosing down the driveway
*Hotfooting it to the nearest exit
*Hug the hog
*Hump your hose
*Investing in pork bellies
*Invoking the Oscar Meyer love spell
*Jack hammer
*Jazz yourself
*Jerk Jamby
*Jerk the gherkin
*left to your own devices
*Letting the cat out of the bag
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