PICK & MIX

WHAT YOU’LL NEED:
A bowl, two pens and two stacks of paper – one colour for him, a different one for you.
HOW TO PLAY:
Grab your pile of paper and write down things you’ve always wanted him to do in bed, then ask him to do the same. Include a range of ideas, from “Caress my breasts” to “Talk dirty” to “Go down on me”.
Fold them up into squares and drop them into a bowl before mixing well. Now, pick one each and follow the instructions. Keep going until the bowl is completely empty.
Ideas for your bowl of lurve:
For her
• Jump in for a double shower
• Give me a hand massage, then suck each finger in turn
• Use my vibrator on me
For Him
• Blow, suck and lick my neck
• Dress up in sexy lingerie
• Masturbate for me
Why you’ll love it:
You’re in for a very sexy surprise – plus an insight into each other’s biggest turn-ons.

BLIND MAN IN THE BUFF

You need: A scarf, a man's necktie or a blindfold.

How to play: Blindfold him. Lead him to the bed or other locale. Then proceed to ravish him -- slowly, recklessly, teasingly, however you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let his arousal be your guide.

Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects -- it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac. Together they can create a love explosion.

Variation: He blindfolds you