Foot Fetish

I know that there are those of you out there who love to worship feet. It does not matter what it is. It could be size of the feet. It could be something about the shape of the toes, the arches. What is it that turns you on about feet/ Come and tell me about what turns you on about feet. I love talking about feet and what turns you on.

My phone sex boyfriend

I love when my phone boyfriend calls. He treats me so well. He makes sure that I am well treated. He loves to spoil me. There is something about making sure that I am treated like I wanted to be treated and that needs are well taken care of. There is something about having our needs taken care of when we are together. I do know that he loves the way I treat him well.

Better orgasms

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PICK & MIX

WHAT YOU’LL NEED:
A bowl, two pens and two stacks of paper – one colour for him, a different one for you.
HOW TO PLAY:
Grab your pile of paper and write down things you’ve always wanted him to do in bed, then ask him to do the same. Include a range of ideas, from “Caress my breasts” to “Talk dirty” to “Go down on me”.
Fold them up into squares and drop them into a bowl before mixing well. Now, pick one each and follow the instructions. Keep going until the bowl is completely empty.
Ideas for your bowl of lurve:
For her
• Jump in for a double shower
• Give me a hand massage, then suck each finger in turn
• Use my vibrator on me
For Him
• Blow, suck and lick my neck
• Dress up in sexy lingerie
• Masturbate for me
Why you’ll love it:
You’re in for a very sexy surprise – plus an insight into each other’s biggest turn-ons.

More masturbation tips

Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual response. It’s all out there, boys will be boys, etc. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Read on for simple and fun tips on how to masturbate for men.
Time Required: Male masturbation doesn't have to always be a "quick affair". Take your time and enjoy.
Here's How:
1. Make time for more than a quickie.
Most guys first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t trying to finish quick before someone interrupts.
2. Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune into your body.
Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of guys do, and while porn can be great, it also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you from what’s actually happening in your body. You don’t need to throw the porn away, but for a few times, masturbate without porn, and objectify yourself for a change!
3. Do a…dry…run through.
Bad pun aside, it’s a good idea to try the above suggestions, and then just masturbate as you normally would. As you do this pay attention:
o Changes in your breathing: Does it become shallow and quick, slower and deeper?
o Changes in your body: is there tension in some places, and relaxation in others? Is this the same every time you masturbate?
o How does it feel just before you have an orgasm?
o How does it feel as you orgasm, and immediately post-orgasm?
4. Time to switch it up.
Men learn early in their lives the most effective way to get themselves off. And most never waver from the utilitarian approach to self love. But sex is less like a well oiled machine, and more like a chaotic food fair, where there is an endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetites. So it’s time to throw a wrench in the works and shake up your routine. Try any combination of the following suggestions:
5. Does your left hand know what your right hand is doing?
Do you always use the same one hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If you’re among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be off, it’s almost like sex with someone new for the first time. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an old hand some tricks.
6. Experiment with positions.
If you aren’t an experimental type, it’s time to start. If you’re used to masturbating lying down on your back, try sitting up. If you normally sit in a chair, try standing, or kneeling. As with all these changes, this might feel ridiculous at first, and you’ll probably go back to old faithful, but see what masturbation feels like in different positions, and notice if it brings with it any new sensations.
7. Get your hips moving.
The way your body moves when you masturbate is probably very different from the way it moves when you’re having sex with someone else. Many men don’t move at all when they masturbate. Try to move your hips when you masturbate, simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Notice how moving your hips in different ways can bring you closer to, and at times take you farther away from, the point of orgasm.
8. Use different hand strokes.
Most men learn early on that a vigorous stroke does the trick. This intense up and down stimulation usually ends in a good orgasm. But there are dozens of other strokes that each bring with them different sensations, and different orgasms. Roll your penis in between your hands, moving your hands up and down your shaft. Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and down. Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.
9. Explore your shaft.
While most of the nerve endings on the penis are at the head, and specifically the frenulum, many men will have spots on their shaft that are unusually sensitive. Try putting one hand at the base of your penis and press it towards your body while experimenting with different hand strokes along the shaft of your penis. Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.
10. Reach around, yourself.
For many men the balls (testicles) are a very sensitive area that responds well to feelings of touch and pressure. Take your forefinger and thumb and make them in a circle at the top of your scrotum. Gently tug on your scrotum as your masturbating. This is both a way to prevent you from ejaculating and a way to extend sexual feelings in your body. Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling, scratching, and rubbing.
11. Check out the neighborhood.
While the penis and scrotum tend to be the epicenter of masturbatory attention, if you’re looking to open things up a bit, be sure to take a tour of some other nearby areas. The perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, is very sensitive to pressure and massage, and rubbing it provides external prostate stimulation. Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the anus, both externally and by using a finger for penetration.
12. Bring it all together.
Not everything you try is going to do it for you, but the idea behind the above tips is to try lots of different things, and then incorporate whatever you like into the ways you regularly masturbate. Maybe it’s a different stroke, or position, or breathing technique. Obviously there is no one, correct way to masturbate, and even if you’ve got something that works for you, consider the fact that there could be more out there if you experiment with it.
Tips:
1. Another myth about male masturbation is that you shouldn’t use anything other than you hand. While your hand might be doing the trick, adding some accessories can make the stimulation even more intense, and inspire more creativity with yourself, and with partners.
2. Get a good quality personal lubricant . If it’s only for masturbation you can use something that’s oil based without worrying about condom compatibility. Oil based products are better because they won’t dry up.
3. Add a sex toy into the mix. It might be a vibrator, a dildo, or a cock ring (if you’ve never tried one I recommend trying one on your own before you use it with a partner). Sex toys can add a completely new kind of stimulation, and accentuate the manual stimulation your doing.

Wonderful sex tips for men and women

There are some wonderful things that you can do to please your partner. Here are some ideas you can do. They can take place over time, during a week on vacation or a weekend trip or during an evening together. Let me know what happens.

1. Bring your sensual, sexual self back into your own "good graces."
2. Make sure you have connected with your own sexual essence
3. Touch your lover every hour.
4. Open your heart to your partner.
5. Delight your partner with a wild, sexy story.
6. Contribute to the sexual power of another.
7. Learn about sexuality.

Better orgasm tips

There are so many things to help with making women have better orgasms. I love when a guy knows what he is doing. It is fun to have multiple orgasms. Here are some tips to have better orgasms. Hope they help. I know you have some ideas that help you have better orgasms. Please share your ideas too.

1. Start outside the bedroom - Want to increase the chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman's brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)
2. Relax her - It's very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.
3. Ignore the vagina - Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you'll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very powerful.
4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you'll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you've finished first and decide to help her come, you
won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed to keep her hot and turned on.
5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best
way I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you're about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the "little guys" subside again. Now continue pleasuring. :D
6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned
on. By using a product substitute, you're only fooling yourself. Without products, you'll
instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.
7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.
8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a "come here" motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot…
9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.
10. Give her oral sex ¬ The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I didn't believe it, countless studies have been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Stripper and Client

Description: This role play is focused on voyeurism, but also on lack of emotion in sex. A lap dance is a deeply sensual act, and when done properly, leaves both participants feeling rather randy.

Remember: Erotic dancing can be a tough call, especially if a woman is very conscious of her body. A great way to offset these fears is to use lighting, stockings and makeup. Dim lights tone skin nicely, as do red lights (covering a normal lamp with red material also works). Any lumps and bumps are smoothed out. Keep in mind that the removal of all clothes is not strictly necessary, so let her know to feel free to keep on a sexy-but-supportive bra, or a lovely pair of knickers, or both. As long as the moves are hot and the lighting is appropriate, it will look beautiful and the effect will be the same.

If finding some moves is a problem, look up dancing videos on the web, or if you dare, go into a real strip club and see what they do. Most cities around the globe now have strip workout classes available for women (and possibly men) which are a fantastic way to get fit and release the sensual beast inside.

Sample scenario 1: A dancer in a club is solicited to do a private dance. She takes him into her private booth and closes the curtains, then proceeds to give him the striptease of his life. There are rules: no touching and no kissing. He may put money down her garter belt. He must keep his clothes on.

Sample scenario 2: A sexy twist on the paid strip scenario is for it to be impromptu and free. For example, your girlfriend locks you in the garden, then gives you a decadent strip tease through the window where you can see her, but cannot touch her or get in the house until she says. Watch out for nosy neighbors!

Props: A sexy outfit is paramount -- a g-string is the generally accepted norm. What you wear on top is up to you, but costumes can be worn such as a nurse’s or maid’s uniform. For shoes, stilettos or high heels are the best.

Foreplay- how fun it really is

Have you ever thought about how important foreplay really is. I know it is important to me. I love it so much. I love to keep things different in the bedroom. I thought I would include some of my favorite ideas for foreplay. Hope you enjoy. Please share some of your favorites with me.

*Stimulate yourself by rubbing against your lover’s leg
*Take your lover’s nipple in your mouth and hum as you lick
*Lightly bite and nibble your lover’s buttocks
*Use your breasts to caress any exposed region of your lover’s body
*Kiss and nibble along your lover’s neck and shoulder from the back
*Kiss and lick your lover’s throat and under their chin
*With the tip of your tongue, lick along your lover’s collar bone
*Find and read aloud a few dirty jokes – use books or the internet
*Quickly draw a favorite sex position, activity or erotic image for your partner
*Look on the internet together for ‘erotic art’ and discuss what inspires you
*Use an ice cube & your tongue to cool then heat an exposed erogenous zone
*Use a vibrator to stimulate your partner’s neck, chest and nipples
*Describe a new location where you would like to have sex and how
*Lightly stroke your lover’s inner thighs, along the crease and over their hips
*Apply your lover’s favorite perfume or cologne on a different part of your body

Paraphilic infantilism is a paraphilia characterized by the desire to wear diapers, due to reasons other than medical necessity, and/or be treated as an infant or toddler. It is also characterized by the carrying out of these desires on a regular basis. Within the community of such diaper wearers, one who engages only in the erotic or sexual aspect of diaper wearing without experiencing any accompanying regression fantasies is known as a diaper lover (or DL). An adult who only engages in the infantilistic play aspect is known as an adult baby (or AB). An adult who may experience both of these things is referred to as an AB/DL. In 2004, an informal online survey of 80 adult diaper wearers showed that approximately 40% considered themselves strictly DL's, approximately 40% were mixed, and 20% considered themselves strictly AB's. The survey also indicated that there is a significant number of teenagers who engage in this practice. Findings of the American Psychiatric Association indicate that a majority of infantilists are heterosexual males.

DLs and ABs differ in self-image and the focus of attention. Neither includes a sexual preference for children. There is no singular, archetypical behavior for paraphilic infantilism, but a wide range of thought patterns and behaviors. Some fantasize about being free of guilt, responsibility, or control, whereas others might not. Some act indistinguishably from a baby at times, while others practice in a way that would probably not be noticed by passers by on the street. The desires and tastes of paraphilic infantilists vary around common themes of diapers and babyhood.

Bedroom boredom busters

There are ways to get rid of some of the boring bedroom antics. Here they are;

1. Share your deepest fantasies with each other.
2. Kiss with your eyes open..
3. Extend your foreplay time... considerably.
4. Play truth or dare but keep your questions steered towards the topic at hand.
5. Make love by only candlelight.
6. Try ice...
7. Spend $100 on lingerie.
8. Take a bath or shower together.
9. Write a sensual love story about you and your partner. Leave it for them to read.
10. Use whipped cream...
11. Stay the night at a hotel with a hot tub.
12. Make it a point to touch every inch of your lover's body.
13. Learn more about aphrodisiacs.
14. Give your love a sensual massage.
15. Buy a few love making technique books and read them together.
16. Compliment your love on how they look and while making love.
17. Do a strip dance for them.
18. Spend a day teasing your partner.
19. Make love somewhere other than your home.
20. Experiment with different types of kisses.
21. When your love comes home, take control and make love to them right there.
22. Share a bottle of champagne while laying on blanket in your backyard looking at the stars.
23. Wash your partner.
24. Leave hidden sensually, teasing notes where they will find them.
25. Experiment with food during foreplay.
26. Kiss every part of their body.
27. Christen each room by making love in a new room every night.
28. Try one new thing in the bedroom a week.
29. Pick up your lover wearing only a trench coat.
30. Fix your hair, makeup, etc. Go to bed with only a pair of high heels on.

How to perform fellatio

Let's begin with a word of reassurance: as long as there are no teeth involved, there's really no such thing as bad fellatio, also known as a "blow job" (though there's no blowing involved). For the recipient, they range from "That was a nice little bit of foreplay" to a mind-bending "Oh my god, I think I almost lost consciousness."

But with a little practice, and a few easy tips, you can improve your odds of providing a truly great blow job every time.

Be Safe. First things first: If you're not with a monogamous partner, be safe and use a condom. Granted, oral sex is easier to give and enjoy without the condom, but you absolutely have to put your own health first. Don't like the taste? Not a problem. Experiment with some of the flavored condoms on the market -- that's what they're there for! And applying water-based lube to the penis before you put on the condom will greatly increase his pleasure.

Get Comfortable. Get into a position that provides you easy access but is also comfortable. Change positions as necessary -- after all, he wants you to enjoy yourself, too. If you're kneeling on the floor in front of him, use a pillow under your knees.

Don't Curb Your Enthusiasm. The key ingredient, many people will tell you, is plain and simple: enthusiasm. No one wants to feel like their partner is reluctant or unwilling, so if you're not into it, save it for another time. But if you seem like you're having fun, it will make the experience that much more pleasurable for him.

Begin With the End in Mind. Unless it's just a little foreplay, take your time and pace yourself so you don't burn out early. That said, don't feel like it has to be a major commitment every time. Almost any man will tell you he'd prefer getting quicker blow jobs more often over one really great one a year.


Get Him Talking. Whether it's harder, softer, faster or slower, no one knows exactly what he wants better than he does. Let him know it's okay to tell you what he needs, whether verbally or non-verbally. But also be sure to watch for clues: heavy breathing and moans of pleasure mean you're on the right track.


Start Off With Style. A little variety is the best way to get him fully aroused: you can stroke, kiss, lick, run your tongue up and down the shaft, take the penis all the way into your mouth in one fell swoop... Keeping him guessing can be a real turn-on.


Use Your Hands: Part 1. Run your hands over his chest and legs. Grab his backside. Use your hands to gently cup his balls. Not only does it feel good, but it's a good way to show him that you're into it.


Don't Be Shy. Women often under-estimate the amount of pressure they can exert on an aroused, erect penis. There's no need to be delicate. It's good to start out with soft, tantalizing moves, but, as arousal is heightened, it will take more pressure to keep things moving along. Let him know that it's okay to tell you when it's too much. Odds are, he won't.


Watch Those Teeth! Unless your partner specifically requests it, don't use your teeth. It can and probably will be painful for him. The best technique is to suck in your lips to cover your teeth just to make sure you don't accidentally graze him during the act.


The Extra-Credit Secret Spot. On the underside of the penis, directly below the head, is a small ridge of skin known as the frenulum. On many men, this area is exquisitely sensitive to stimulation. Learn it. Know it. Use it.


Get Into a Rhythm. Once he's fully aroused and heading towards what will hopefully be a mind-blowing orgasm, it's time to take things up a notch. This is where you begin fellating in earnest. Use gentle (not too gentle) suction and an up-and-down motion with your head to move him toward climax.

Use Your Hands: Part 2. Grasp his penis at the base and move your hand up and down in rhythm with your mouth for increased pressure. Get a steady rhythm going and don't vary it. It can (and probably will) speed up as he gets closer, but at this point it's important to not change what you're doing. This is the very best way to make sure your excursion into blow job land reaches its grand finale.

To Swallow or Not To Swallow... That is the question. It's up to you. Many men will tell you that they kind of like it when their partner swallows (although if you did your job well, they might not even notice). But if the idea doesn't appeal, keep a towel or cup nearby so you don't have to race to the sink afterwards.

The Most Important Thing to Remember. Have fun. Relax. He's going to love it. At the very least, he'll like it. A whole, whole lot. Especially if you promise to keep practicing on h