Ways to spice up your sex life

There are so many ways to spice up your sex life. Here are some ways to spice it up. There are so many other ways. Please share your ideas.

20 Ways to spice up your love life
1. Why do you have to? If the combination of the two people isn't spicy enough, stay home and read a good book.
2. Let your date pick from a grab bag of coupons for different sex acts from a sensuous massage to intercourse in the room of his choice.
3. Flirt, flirt, flirt with your partner: No matter how long you've been together, flirt with each other when you go out. If you used to flirt with each other and now don't, start doing it again. If you never did, try stepping out of your "norm" and flirt a little with him or her.
4.Let your husband/date choose a sexy outfit for you to wear. Just the act of dressing for him -- outfit and lingerie -- will turn him on.
5. Go on a road trip! Just drive, no destination in mind, and see where the road takes you.
6. Do a slow strip tease, one item of clothing after each romantic dance. You probably won't get past 3 songs.
7. Wear sexy underwear that you know your mate will love – it will be an extra special gift as he unwraps his "present".
8. Play photographer and model. Whether you keep the photos or not, it is a great turn on. And a great way to find out what about your looks turns him on.
9. Make some chocolate fondue for dessert – and then brush the leftovers on each other!
10. Start with you nude in your heels and have him to put your garter belt and hose on you -- again you might get past one leg. Note -- if HE puts on your garter belt and hose --run for your life.
11. Try something you never have before – whether it be a public place, bondage, or blind folds, it will bring a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.
12. Invent your own brand of romance and it doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Romance to you might be yelling and screaming together at a basketball game. It might be snuggled up at your favorite restaurant or it might be taking a walk in the woods and holding hands.
13. Send flirty texts in the hours before your date – by dinner, the anticipation will be driving you crazy.
14. Wear new undies. Even if you don't plan for the night to go in that direction, it will make you feel more sexy and confident.
15. Share the fantasy night. Whisper your fantasy in his ear in public and let him stew in the thought until you get home. Have the stage set.
16. Watch a dirty movie. Either it will turn you on, or give you a great shared laugh.
17. Try an evening of finger foods... feeding each other gooey, messy, bites can be incredibly erotic!
18. Take a trip down memory lane. For date night, do something together that you used to love to do together. Maybe it's the restaurant where you met, bowling or renting the movie you saw together on your first date.
19. Fool around – but don't have sex. Remember high school, when you'd make out for hours and never even take off your clothes? NOT having sex can be a huge turn on.
20. Try role playing. Meet at a bar and pretend to be strangers... the excitement will be flowing in no time.

Back up bootie

I know I have been looking for ways to spice up my sex life. I have found that this has been one for the books. I love to do this one with a partner. For some reason it is hot and makes for some really hot sex.

Backup bootie
Erotic Instructions:
Your partner lies on his back, his legs straight out in front of him, a pillow under his head so he can watch the action. You straddle him with your head facing his feet. With your hands on the floor for support, you back up onto his penis. He holds your upper thighs or butt tightly while you thrust.

Try it and find out. Let me know. It will be fun.

Jerking off

Do you ever get alone time to play with your piece? I know you guys take time to masturbate. Here are some names for it. Share your ideas on it.

*Hosing down the driveway
*Hotfooting it to the nearest exit
*Hug the hog
*Hump your hose
*Investing in pork bellies
*Invoking the Oscar Meyer love spell
*Jack hammer
*Jazz yourself
*Jerk Jamby
*Jerk the gherkin
*left to your own devices
*Letting the cat out of the bag

Pain

There are so many things that are a part of BDsM. Here is one. This one is hard to explain, but here is the best explanation I have found.

Sadist - a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A sadist is NOT: a wife-beater, a rapist, a serial killer, a kicker of dogs and a stealer of candy from babies. This misconception is common. While it is certainly not impossible that an erotic sadist could be any or all of these things, it is not common and by no means true across the board. Your average erotic sadist is interested in mutual gratification with a consenting partner, and in using all kinds of pain as pleasure-giving stimuli. Forget those whip-wielding weirdos you saw on Springer the other day; they aren’t exactly representative

My phone boyfriend

This guy is so sweet. He has been my phone sex boyfriend. He loves making sure that I am so well taken care of. He loves the way my legs look. He loves to make sure that I am tipped. He loves that we are together and that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I love the way he talks to me. It is so soothing and so nice.

Names to call sex

We all have things to call having sex so that we don't have to have to say that we are having sex. It is something we can say so that we can do that in front of the kids or in front of polite company. It is something that we do so that we can have something personal with our partner. Here are some names I have thought of. Please feel free to comment and tell me what you use when you are "getting down to business" or "getting your freak on"

*Pickle tickle
*Marinate the loin
*Dinging the duck
*Banging the beaver
*Sinking the sailor
*Horizontal polka
*Horizontal hula
*Boink
*Humping
*Wanna take a nap?
*Pole dance
*Slap skins
*Hump

Sex and Spanking

There is some etiquette for spanking during sex. The main thing to remember is pain and not to hurt your partner. One cheek at a time. Here are some tips.

how to spank her
Don't wind up like a maniac just yet; there is an actual etiquette to spanking women:

Warm up
Obviously, I don't mean that you should jog around the block; rather, rub your hands together to ensure that they're warm when they connect with her skin.

Choose the hand
Although right-handed people tend to use their right hands, you can opt to use whichever hand you're more comfortable with -- or even both, just not at the same time.

One cheek at a time
Just to reiterate; never smack both cheeks at the same time; not only will you not be able to do your spanking adequately, you may end up hurting her, in a bad way.

Position yourself
Place yourself in a position where you're able to maneuver freely and accurately. The last thing you want to do is smack her on her back or thigh.

Keep your hand tight
By keeping your hand solid and slightly cupping your hand, you ensure a nice sound, a slight sting and a whole lot of pleasure.

Smack it up
Remember that you're aiming for the meatiest part of her butt, which is the middle. After you actually slap her cheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it.