There are ways to get rid of some of the boring bedroom antics. Here they are;
1. Share your deepest fantasies with each other.
2. Kiss with your eyes open..
3. Extend your foreplay time... considerably.
4. Play truth or dare but keep your questions steered towards the topic at hand.
5. Make love by only candlelight.
6. Try ice...
7. Spend $100 on lingerie.
8. Take a bath or shower together.
9. Write a sensual love story about you and your partner. Leave it for them to read.
10. Use whipped cream...
11. Stay the night at a hotel with a hot tub.
12. Make it a point to touch every inch of your lover's body.
13. Learn more about aphrodisiacs.
14. Give your love a sensual massage.
15. Buy a few love making technique books and read them together.
16. Compliment your love on how they look and while making love.
17. Do a strip dance for them.
18. Spend a day teasing your partner.
19. Make love somewhere other than your home.
20. Experiment with different types of kisses.
21. When your love comes home, take control and make love to them right there.
22. Share a bottle of champagne while laying on blanket in your backyard looking at the stars.
23. Wash your partner.
24. Leave hidden sensually, teasing notes where they will find them.
25. Experiment with food during foreplay.
26. Kiss every part of their body.
27. Christen each room by making love in a new room every night.
28. Try one new thing in the bedroom a week.
29. Pick up your lover wearing only a trench coat.
30. Fix your hair, makeup, etc. Go to bed with only a pair of high heels on.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Trichophilia
Trichophilia or hair fetishism is a disorder where one is sexually aroused by human hair; it is usually hair on the scalp. But this does not preclude pubic hair, hair under the armpits. The perpetrator orgasms from watching or touching long hair, long bangs, red hair (freckle fetishism), wet hair, hair cutting, new hairstyles etc.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
How to perform fellatio
Let's begin with a word of reassurance: as long as there are no teeth involved, there's really no such thing as bad fellatio, also known as a "blow job" (though there's no blowing involved). For the recipient, they range from "That was a nice little bit of foreplay" to a mind-bending "Oh my god, I think I almost lost consciousness."
But with a little practice, and a few easy tips, you can improve your odds of providing a truly great blow job every time.
Be Safe. First things first: If you're not with a monogamous partner, be safe and use a condom. Granted, oral sex is easier to give and enjoy without the condom, but you absolutely have to put your own health first. Don't like the taste? Not a problem. Experiment with some of the flavored condoms on the market -- that's what they're there for! And applying water-based lube to the penis before you put on the condom will greatly increase his pleasure.
Get Comfortable. Get into a position that provides you easy access but is also comfortable. Change positions as necessary -- after all, he wants you to enjoy yourself, too. If you're kneeling on the floor in front of him, use a pillow under your knees.
Don't Curb Your Enthusiasm. The key ingredient, many people will tell you, is plain and simple: enthusiasm. No one wants to feel like their partner is reluctant or unwilling, so if you're not into it, save it for another time. But if you seem like you're having fun, it will make the experience that much more pleasurable for him.
Begin With the End in Mind. Unless it's just a little foreplay, take your time and pace yourself so you don't burn out early. That said, don't feel like it has to be a major commitment every time. Almost any man will tell you he'd prefer getting quicker blow jobs more often over one really great one a year.
Get Him Talking. Whether it's harder, softer, faster or slower, no one knows exactly what he wants better than he does. Let him know it's okay to tell you what he needs, whether verbally or non-verbally. But also be sure to watch for clues: heavy breathing and moans of pleasure mean you're on the right track.
Start Off With Style. A little variety is the best way to get him fully aroused: you can stroke, kiss, lick, run your tongue up and down the shaft, take the penis all the way into your mouth in one fell swoop... Keeping him guessing can be a real turn-on.
Use Your Hands: Part 1. Run your hands over his chest and legs. Grab his backside. Use your hands to gently cup his balls. Not only does it feel good, but it's a good way to show him that you're into it.
Don't Be Shy. Women often under-estimate the amount of pressure they can exert on an aroused, erect penis. There's no need to be delicate. It's good to start out with soft, tantalizing moves, but, as arousal is heightened, it will take more pressure to keep things moving along. Let him know that it's okay to tell you when it's too much. Odds are, he won't.
Watch Those Teeth! Unless your partner specifically requests it, don't use your teeth. It can and probably will be painful for him. The best technique is to suck in your lips to cover your teeth just to make sure you don't accidentally graze him during the act.
The Extra-Credit Secret Spot. On the underside of the penis, directly below the head, is a small ridge of skin known as the frenulum. On many men, this area is exquisitely sensitive to stimulation. Learn it. Know it. Use it.
Get Into a Rhythm. Once he's fully aroused and heading towards what will hopefully be a mind-blowing orgasm, it's time to take things up a notch. This is where you begin fellating in earnest. Use gentle (not too gentle) suction and an up-and-down motion with your head to move him toward climax.
Use Your Hands: Part 2. Grasp his penis at the base and move your hand up and down in rhythm with your mouth for increased pressure. Get a steady rhythm going and don't vary it. It can (and probably will) speed up as he gets closer, but at this point it's important to not change what you're doing. This is the very best way to make sure your excursion into blow job land reaches its grand finale.
To Swallow or Not To Swallow... That is the question. It's up to you. Many men will tell you that they kind of like it when their partner swallows (although if you did your job well, they might not even notice). But if the idea doesn't appeal, keep a towel or cup nearby so you don't have to race to the sink afterwards.
The Most Important Thing to Remember. Have fun. Relax. He's going to love it. At the very least, he'll like it. A whole, whole lot. Especially if you promise to keep practicing on h
But with a little practice, and a few easy tips, you can improve your odds of providing a truly great blow job every time.
Be Safe. First things first: If you're not with a monogamous partner, be safe and use a condom. Granted, oral sex is easier to give and enjoy without the condom, but you absolutely have to put your own health first. Don't like the taste? Not a problem. Experiment with some of the flavored condoms on the market -- that's what they're there for! And applying water-based lube to the penis before you put on the condom will greatly increase his pleasure.
Get Comfortable. Get into a position that provides you easy access but is also comfortable. Change positions as necessary -- after all, he wants you to enjoy yourself, too. If you're kneeling on the floor in front of him, use a pillow under your knees.
Don't Curb Your Enthusiasm. The key ingredient, many people will tell you, is plain and simple: enthusiasm. No one wants to feel like their partner is reluctant or unwilling, so if you're not into it, save it for another time. But if you seem like you're having fun, it will make the experience that much more pleasurable for him.
Begin With the End in Mind. Unless it's just a little foreplay, take your time and pace yourself so you don't burn out early. That said, don't feel like it has to be a major commitment every time. Almost any man will tell you he'd prefer getting quicker blow jobs more often over one really great one a year.
Get Him Talking. Whether it's harder, softer, faster or slower, no one knows exactly what he wants better than he does. Let him know it's okay to tell you what he needs, whether verbally or non-verbally. But also be sure to watch for clues: heavy breathing and moans of pleasure mean you're on the right track.
Start Off With Style. A little variety is the best way to get him fully aroused: you can stroke, kiss, lick, run your tongue up and down the shaft, take the penis all the way into your mouth in one fell swoop... Keeping him guessing can be a real turn-on.
Use Your Hands: Part 1. Run your hands over his chest and legs. Grab his backside. Use your hands to gently cup his balls. Not only does it feel good, but it's a good way to show him that you're into it.
Don't Be Shy. Women often under-estimate the amount of pressure they can exert on an aroused, erect penis. There's no need to be delicate. It's good to start out with soft, tantalizing moves, but, as arousal is heightened, it will take more pressure to keep things moving along. Let him know that it's okay to tell you when it's too much. Odds are, he won't.
Watch Those Teeth! Unless your partner specifically requests it, don't use your teeth. It can and probably will be painful for him. The best technique is to suck in your lips to cover your teeth just to make sure you don't accidentally graze him during the act.
The Extra-Credit Secret Spot. On the underside of the penis, directly below the head, is a small ridge of skin known as the frenulum. On many men, this area is exquisitely sensitive to stimulation. Learn it. Know it. Use it.
Get Into a Rhythm. Once he's fully aroused and heading towards what will hopefully be a mind-blowing orgasm, it's time to take things up a notch. This is where you begin fellating in earnest. Use gentle (not too gentle) suction and an up-and-down motion with your head to move him toward climax.
Use Your Hands: Part 2. Grasp his penis at the base and move your hand up and down in rhythm with your mouth for increased pressure. Get a steady rhythm going and don't vary it. It can (and probably will) speed up as he gets closer, but at this point it's important to not change what you're doing. This is the very best way to make sure your excursion into blow job land reaches its grand finale.
To Swallow or Not To Swallow... That is the question. It's up to you. Many men will tell you that they kind of like it when their partner swallows (although if you did your job well, they might not even notice). But if the idea doesn't appeal, keep a towel or cup nearby so you don't have to race to the sink afterwards.
The Most Important Thing to Remember. Have fun. Relax. He's going to love it. At the very least, he'll like it. A whole, whole lot. Especially if you promise to keep practicing on h
Monday, September 20, 2010
Bathtub boogie
The bathtub is something that is great for sex. It makes for some close for comfort sex. This is great for me. I will let you know I did this recently and I will want to know how it goes for you.
Bathtub boogie
Erotic Instructions:
Your partner reclines in the tub with the water level waist-high. If he's too tall to straighten his legs, he can bend them. Place an inflatable bath pillow behind his back if you have one. Then straddle his lap, facing his feet, and slowly lower yourself onto his penis. Lean forward so you're resting on your palms. He holds on to your butt or thighs as you ride him.
Bathtub boogie
Erotic Instructions:
Your partner reclines in the tub with the water level waist-high. If he's too tall to straighten his legs, he can bend them. Place an inflatable bath pillow behind his back if you have one. Then straddle his lap, facing his feet, and slowly lower yourself onto his penis. Lean forward so you're resting on your palms. He holds on to your butt or thighs as you ride him.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Dear to Cupid
I love to try new sex positions. I tried this one with my boyfriend and we love doing this one.
Dear to Cupid
She lies flat on her back,
you sit between her parted knees, raise them,
hook her feet over your thighs,
catch hold of her breasts, and enjoy her:
this is "Manmathpriya"
Try this one and let me know how it works for you.
Dear to Cupid
She lies flat on her back,
you sit between her parted knees, raise them,
hook her feet over your thighs,
catch hold of her breasts, and enjoy her:
this is "Manmathpriya"
Try this one and let me know how it works for you.
Friday, September 17, 2010
Sex locations
This is one of the things that makes sex so great. I love to change things up. Here are some things to change up locations.
*As sexy as you can, strip off one piece of clothing
*Slowly remove an article of clothing from your partner (your choice)
*Slow dance together for one song – great when you are naked
*Put on one item of lingerie or sexy clothing your lover chooses
*Standing, hug and kiss each other passionately (French kissing)
*Perform a lap dance to music while removing one item of clothing
*Describe in detail a raunchy sex scenario involving both of you
*Lightly stroke your lover’s face, lips, neck and ears with your finger tips
*Caress, kiss and lick up and back down your lover’s legs
*Tickle the back of your partner’s knee with the tip of your tongue
*Trace the major lines on your lover’s palm with the tip of your tongue
*Take your lover’s thumb in your mouth and caress it with your tongue
*Lick and suck each finger on one of your lover’s hand
*As sexy as you can, strip off one piece of clothing
*Slowly remove an article of clothing from your partner (your choice)
*Slow dance together for one song – great when you are naked
*Put on one item of lingerie or sexy clothing your lover chooses
*Standing, hug and kiss each other passionately (French kissing)
*Perform a lap dance to music while removing one item of clothing
*Describe in detail a raunchy sex scenario involving both of you
*Lightly stroke your lover’s face, lips, neck and ears with your finger tips
*Caress, kiss and lick up and back down your lover’s legs
*Tickle the back of your partner’s knee with the tip of your tongue
*Trace the major lines on your lover’s palm with the tip of your tongue
*Take your lover’s thumb in your mouth and caress it with your tongue
*Lick and suck each finger on one of your lover’s hand
Thursday, September 16, 2010
My phone boyfriend
My phone boyfriend is so sweet. I know how to turn him on. He loves the sound of my voice and how I know him so well. He loves that I talk about us and that everyone knows about us. He loves taking care of me. It is so sweet that he loves taking care of me. He has been one of the sweetest guys. I just love the sound of his voice. It is so soothing and gentle. He is one of the guys that you just don't want to let go of. He is one that you want to keep around.
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